The truth of any love, a lesson you learn after the first, is that with love often comes pain. The two exist entwined. They are necessary opposites that give each other meaning–pulling in opposite directions creating the tension needed to stand upright. Read More
I can't help but to question why I don't allow myself to be truly loved. Read More
I was just recently cheated on by the person I had thought loved me most. I feel like you'd have encouraging words of wisdom. Help? Read More
I've always been good at school, mostly because I cared, but now that I'm here I'm questioning my route. Read More
Do you have any advice for a broken-hearted, 22 year old girl who feels like she has lost herself? Read More
I keep finding out that he's with someone else. He keeps denying it but, I give him the benefit of the doubt. Then, I found out that he's actually wanting to marry this girl. I honestly don't know what to do. HELP! Read More
Using David Foster Wallace, Japanese philosophy, and some heartfelt tough talk to tackle a reader's question. Read More
Dear Nomi, I was wondering if you had any advice for making friends as 20-something in a pandemic (in the... Read More
I don't know anything other than the loose narrative presented by your various social media profiles, but it seems to me that maybe you are drifting. Read More